The Evidence Turns Around

Welcome back to Phoenix Phreedom, I'm Kera. I hope you all had a beautiful Labor Day weekend, and happy birthday to all my Virgos celebrating this week. Yes, I remembered you. Now come on in, grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, because we need to have a serious talk. And before you get nervous, no, I do not know what you did, yes. You all know I'm a social scientist and a strategist, and my work is to name the pattern that looked like personality, long after we forgot and they began as protection.

Last time, we asked what the evidence says about everybody around you. Today, the evidence turns around. And here's the hardest question. Can you trust yourself with what you know? So picture this. Your phone lights up.

Something at work did not get done. Nobody asks you to fix it, but you are already three steps into the solution. Then somebody in your family needs something, so you handle that too. Later, a message comes through from somebody you work with. Something fills off. The explanation sounds reasonable, but the behavior underneath does not quite match.